I have been reading the book "The Love Dare" (by Stephen & Alex Kendrick, featured in the movie "Fireproof"). Whether you've been married one week or thirty years, you could benefit from reading this book. The purpose of the book is to teach you how to love your spouse unconditionally, just as Christ loves us. Each day has a short devotional and then a "dare" for you to complete. The book also offers a space for you to reflect your thoughts after completing the dare.
Now, I don't think (nor have ever thought) that I have a bad/rough marriage. BUT, after seeing the movie, I thought it'd be fun to get the book and give it a try. The results have been AMAZING! I have found myself thinking about Nick and missing him throughout the day, even through all the daily chores, work, etc. Not that I never thought about him, but you know the way you think about someone when you first start dating them??? That's what I'm talking about. Yesterday was our 8 year "dating" anniversary, and I still feel as if he just asked me to be his girlfriend! I truly feel like I'm falling in love all over again!
So, for those of you wondering, no, I haven't been paid to promote the book! :-) It's just that I've really been enjoying the book and the results. Not only do I feel close to Nick, but I feel closer to God. I'm only on day 15, so 25 to go, but I have a feeling that I will be starting over again after my 40 days is up!
I leave you now with a few verses from today's chapter titled "Love is Honorable."
"Live with your wives in an understanding way...and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life." 1 Peter 3:7
"I will also honor them and they will not be insignificant." Jeremiah 30:19
3 comments:
Amanda, it is so good to read your thoughts! Keep the faith, and stay strong- I know is loving the new you!
I meant to say "Nick is loving the new you!"
You have inspired your father and I to buy the book and take the Love Dare also. I'm on day 2. Wish me luck!
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